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So my invitation is to contemplate this concept-and feel free to share. I’ve often thought that if marriage vows really reflected the truth of how people were going to behave, they would say, “I’ll love you forever in my heart of hearts, but I’ll only stay married to you until you cheat, lie, or become irresponsible with time or money.” Unconditional love in its purest sense doesn’t mean allowing someone to repeatedly abuse or harm us, no matter what. We can pray for them, wish them well, and want the best for them while maintaining boundaries about how we are treated. In my six years as a therapist and my own personal journey I’ve realised what lies beneath 99.9 of mental health disorders is a lack of self love. We can love someone unconditionally from a distance while having conditions for how they treat us. My offer to you is to help you discover unconditional love for yourself by connecting with the energetic frequency of love. My personal philosophy is that there is a difference between unconditionally loving someone and unconditionally living with them, staying in close proximity to them, or remaining in a relationship with them.
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In fact, when we say “I do,” we are essentially saying, “I’ll love you no matter what-for better and for worse, in good times and bad.” We tend to think that unconditional love is the love of family members and of married couples. In some circles, unconditional love essentially means love no matter what. But what is it exactly? How do you do it? And is it really possible? Is it maintained regardless of integrity? “Unconditional love” is aspired toward in the realm of personal and spiritual growth as the highest form of love. It is my observation that unconditional love may still have conditions. Kids don’t have to embrace their parents no matter what, and spouses don’t stay married no matter what. Parents don’t welcome their kids home no matter what.
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Unconditional love in its purest sense doesn’t mean allowing someone to repeatedly abuse or harm us, no matter what.As we have witnessed in countless homes and families, this is not actually true. It’s incredibly freeing to know that deep and pure a love. There is no judgment, no disappointment, only love. There is absolutely nothing you can say or do or even think that will break or undermine the love Source has for you exactly the way you are. Source will love you no matter what you do. We can pray for them, wish them well, and want the best for them while maintaining boundaries about how we are treated. Divine love is one hundred percent unconditional. We can love someone unconditionally from a distance while having conditions for how they treat us.